Date report: 6am post-mortem
Published by Allison July 15th, 2006 in Amuse Me, Annoy Me, DatingI may add a little more on this later, I may not. Whatever, it was SO nice to have a date I actually enjoyed, rather than tolerated.
From: Allison
Date: Jul 15, 2006 6:08 AM
Subject: Accolades and ApologiesHi, (name)!
First, the accolades:
- I had a blast. Seriously, what fun — I’ll pay for it on the trail this morning, but I really enjoyed dinner/dessert/drinks with you last night.
- The conversation was great. It’s so refreshing (that word again — it just fits) to meet up with someone and not find myself struggling to keep conversation going, or alternately thinking to myself, “can I go home yet?”
- Mmmmm. Kisses. Good stuff.
The apologies:
- If I’d been thinking about it, I would have stopped with the red wine. A little unwinding (or “sin”) is a great thing. More isn’t necessarily better. Blame it on my lack of getting out enough, no recent practice getting out of the damned house, whatever…I. know. better. I hope I didn’t come across as an ass.
- The bill — I wasn’t paying attention and should have been quicker about grabbing my purse. Thanks for being gracious about it.
Blech, I hate laying in bed feeling sheepish and mentally writing emails. It’s way better to just get the thoughts out there. Now that that part’s out of the way…I’d love to see you again sometime.
Have a great Saturday! I’m off to guzzle (even more) water, take a few advil, and hit the trail. Oh, to be 25 again!
Allison
It wasn’t that I had too much to drink entirely…just too much for a first date, if you know what I mean? Oh, social lubrication, you are the bane of my dating existence!
But still — what fun.

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Yay for a fun date!
hehe! I love the word “social lubrication.” It just sounds dirty.
Glad you had fun on your date! So did you actually send this message to your beau?
I *did* actually send the email, and I haven’t received a reply. Sending it might have been a mistake, but since those thoughts were on my mind (over…and over…and over again), I still feel okay about writing what I did.
Maybe I’ll hear back. Maybe I won’t.
By now, I’ve learned — no matter how well *I* think a date might have gone — not to assume anything.
Hello, cynicism!
Okay, fine. I jumped the gun on the cynicism.