Send your kids to college grounded in reality.
Published by Allison March 20th, 2006 in Spirituality & Religion, CultureReading Pharyngula earlier today, I was pleased to find a Christian commenter who…well…thinks. When I (finally) update my links list, Rob will be an addition. I’m already bookmarking him for my regular reads.
I’m in that new-reader fun phase of figuring out what a blogger is all about, and so far, I’m enjoying what I’m finding. In this post, Rob succinctly expresses one of my biggest frustrations with “Christianity” (yes, the quotation marks are on purpose) today:
An often cited “cultural problem” is how students who believe “Chrstianity” go to college and, thanks to the “indoctrination” of their professors, lose their faith. How horrible and secular colleges must be, the conclusion goes. Indeed, I have known a student or two who showed up believing that the Earth was only 6000 years old and was created in its present form from the void, but who, after a few years of education, stopped believing in God altogether. I thought that was sad, but the problem was not that the student had obtained a great education, learning how to think critically and learning a lot about what humanity knows aout the Universe. No, in fact, the problem was that the student had been brought up to understand that to be “Christian” was to believe a bunch of stuff which is, quite frankly, wrong.
If you want your children to remain Christians if they go out into the world and learn more about the world, don’t insist that being a Christian means believing a lot of stuff which is completely inconsistent with what has arisen from the progress of human knowledge. Students grow and change in college, and may still lose their faith. But if they start with an understanding of faith that fits with the modern world, it will be a lot easier to hold on to it.
As one who went to college, learned critical thinking, then spent a good 10+ years afterward walking away from Christianity, I wholeheartedly agree. Nicely said, Rob.

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Wow, word to that. That’s another reason why I think Christian schools for K-12 are a horrible, terrible idea. Sending your kid to an evangelical Christian school is like putting down a guarantee that your kid will “rebel” later, once they hit the real world. (If, in fact, they do hit the real world, which as we know many Christians never actually do).
Exceptions apply, of course. I know a woman who became a Christian while going to a Christian school (her family weren’t churchgoers at the time).
This is something I could never understand. Why do Christians need a Christian school? Isn’t that what parents are for? Don’t those who know nothing about Christianity need a Christian school? It isn’t doctors who go to Med school…it is those who want to become doctors. It isn’t English teachers who go to English classes…it is English students. Well, you get my drift. Constant indoctrination is the hallmark of the scared witless.
Between, I think, fourth and fifth grade, I almost ended up getting sent to a Christian school after being in public school for my entire school(ed) life up to that point.
Didn’t happen.
That said, though, I’d converted to Christianity somewhere between the ages of four and six (inclusive), only to start questioning and defining my faith for myself about four years ago. While I agree with some things that are taught within the faith, I don’t subscribe to everything I’ve been taught anymore.